Ugh....while my mind is still swirling, let's be serious, shan't we?
Well, I've ever written this article before, and this was ever published in Informatika, a weekly news in Cairo. It's supposed to be three-in-row article, but since I've been busted around more and more with faculty's activities, the second chapter isn't ever written yet :P . I've just formally talked with a chief of editor, and he said that until I'm done with my rush-hour, I could postpone my writing (kekeke...). Okay, and this is it. This first article talks more about the personality and its relation with a communication. The second one will follow after a week, okay? :D
Human is considerably as it’s stated in Latin phrase: Homo sapiens – a wise creature that has its talent to deduce everything around and make them as his own benefit. But surprisingly, this state is neither true nor wrong, because humans are psychically different. From this point of view, analogically they could be divided into two groups of people: those who dominate others and those who are being dominated.
First, let’s reveal the basic. Compared to another creature, human has a thing that sure leads many steps forward then others – a brain, or to be honest, an intellect. This thing is really definitive. Say, if you want to do two things or more at once, merely means you must have some fore-made plan, unless you will do it carelessly and the result is almost unworthy. But, when it comes to think about a single thing, humans are easily predictable, either they will use their logic, or their emotions. Try to give a prank message to your friend here at Egypt: “Your dear mom has passed away since yesterday.” For a person who doesn’t let the emotion control him, they will desperately look for a clue to clarify is his mom really died? Until he finally asked all of his family, relatives, siblings, friends or others and then got the fact that his mom is really died, he wouldn’t even bother spill his tears. But, a person who’s easily put their emotion through everything could be scared and even trust that prank, begin to panic, even shred to tears and finally he feels saddened so badly that he starts to end himself, before ever realizing the fact – this is the worst case, thought.
Now, after conducting the basic, we could come up to the conclusion, that people control his life based on logic, emotion or even both of them. If we think simply, perhaps the upper position of those three is a logical person. He never by any chance, let himself caught by the emotion, never try to do anything reckless to exploit his weakness, and so on he is even be able to manipulate his emotion - but he is just another person. Call it a day, convince them, tease them, pursue them, but not by logic or charm, instead use an empathy, and he’ll fall for it – not precisely, but slightly done.
And here comes the emotional person. The blood rush, temper, melancholy, happy, sadness are only some words those exact his attitude. His facial expression and gesture are simply honest, whenever they feel sad, mad or happy, his face expresses it straightly. You don’t even have to try to guess what he is currently hiding, because they put it right onto their surface, and this is what usually a logical person makes a profit of it. The logical person, who always appears to have some plan, will easily attract the emotional person by their fake apathy, smile and ride through his emotion to trick him and finally dominate him, in some way or another.
This is like if we recall back earlier, a dominating people are on the logical person’s hands, while stands as vice versa, the emotional person as the one who’s being dominated. Then comes the question: how about the third one, those who use their logics and emotions coincidentally?
Before answering the question above, I’ll clarify that the state above is already proven in a company, office, or a community which contains a several groups inside. An emotional person often appears to be honest, loyal and become the prey of the logical person. Why? An emotional person tends to think that being a honest person will be rewarded as double by their manager, respected by his relatives or whatever, meanwhile his colleagues – the logical person, takes this chance to improve their profit. They persuade the emotional person one, trick them to act as their closest partner ever, but it’s just a sweet talk and bad breath…the emotional person’s just as innocence as ever, never notice what really happen, and lately when they need some help from the logical person, they reveal the mask on their faces and show them the truth.
“They played me for a fool. They invalidate contracts, made me sign new ones that weren’t legally binding, and tricked me with worthless promissory notes. I was nothing but prey for each and every one of those ravenous hyenas and in just a year, I had bankrupted my father’s entire company. That experience brought me to my senses, which are why there’s only one way worthy to continue living. To find all those out there weaker than you and exploit them for all they worth. That is our cruel reality!”, confessed Kosaka Todako, director of a company in Japan, after realizing a harsh reality that brought her company into bankruptcy.
But, not every logical person acted as a predator who hunts down their prey – the emotional persons. There are still a few persons left out there, from the third group of human, who played the role as the equilibrium of both them, those who use their logic and emotions coincidentally. This one who we must belong to, because they are able to tie the exist between people and understand better that the aspect of this life is not only by deception. It is whether we can form a strong enough bonds with another to nullify even the most thought out lie, who’s usually done by the logical person - but the emotional person still stands a chance to do so. After all, this life will be more peaceful if everyone rely and believe to each other, without even committing a single lie, but still aware of what others are able to do to us.
7 comments:
Just wanna say "Hi" aja deh :P
January 26, 2010 at 5:40 PM*puyeng bacanya, ndadak buka kamus dulu*
Tetap Semangat !!!
Merdeka !!!
speachless baca tulisannya...
January 27, 2010 at 3:00 AMagak mumet juga sih,,
mm.., seem very detail here, i guess i should read it more than once to completely undertand.. ^_^
January 27, 2010 at 2:55 PMhmmm... maybe I am the type between of logic and emotional persons. But there is sometimes my logical is domination my act than my emotions
January 28, 2010 at 12:10 AMI just feel so emotional if someone attack my principe. its very annoying >___< *wanna kick them hahahahaha*
January 28, 2010 at 12:15 AMHmmmm, IMHO, I'm a little different than Kucing Tengil, I'm more logic than emotional, even sometimes my friends think that I'm emotionless :D
February 8, 2010 at 2:30 AMx>Sari: huahaha, wduh srry lah kl pk bhs (L)Inggris...linguistikx lagi kumat :P
February 8, 2010 at 3:58 AMx>Yunna: slow but sure aj bacany :D
x>Chi: masih kurang detail ah :/
x>KcingTngil n Vamps: haha, I see. So that u're th type of melancholy, just like I xpctd :D
x>Shin-kun: same here. why do then people refer us as emotionless? I don't quite get it yet :P
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